Be ready to let the other person talk first, just so you can stick to your point.

Keep a calm attitude and stay positive and you will be surprised at how fast things change.

Click To Tweet Three things that will help you stick to the real issue: When you argue you need to stick the point and real issue and not let the discussion get sidetracked with accusations, name calling and other forms of attacks.

The key is learning how to stick to the point and not to the person. What you both need to understand is that forgiveness is essential to marriage, but it can take a while to get to a place where you can forgive your spouse.įighting fair in your marriage is about learning to resolve conflicts in a way that allows you to discuss and resolve your differences without damaging your relationship. People often says things in the heat of the moment that they don’t really mean. You may be hurt by your spouse’s behavior, or by something he or she said, and it can be hard to hold back the hurtful words. No matter how much you love your spouse, when you argue, you probably say things you don’t really mean. Once motives are aligned with moving the marriage in the right direction (unity, love, partnership), it’s important to understand the following seven keys to having a fair fight.

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